Lately, I've been deeply reflecting on how our minds work, especially how we take individual occurrences and weave them into a larger narrative. It’s fascinating and somewhat daunting to realise that these narratives can be positive or negative, even if they might not be entirely true.
Our brains are incredible at storytelling: From a single event, our minds can create an elaborate narrative that shapes our perception of ourselves and the world around us. For instance, one negative experience can snowball into a broader narrative of failure or inadequacy, while a positive event can boost our self-esteem and shape a narrative of success and capability. The stories we tell ourselves are powerful: They influence our emotions, our actions, and ultimately, our lives. But here's the catch: these narratives aren't always accurate. Often, they are coloured by our past experiences, biases, and fears. A single misstep can turn into a story of constant failure, just as a single achievement can be woven into a tale of unending success. Through my journey of mindfulness and self-reflection: I've noticed how I sometimes cling to negative narratives. These stories, often rooted in childhood trauma or past hurts, can feel overwhelmingly real. They serve as a form of protection, a way for our minds to prepare for the worst. But in reality, they can limit us, keeping us stuck in a cycle of negative thinking. On the flip side, recognising this pattern is the first step towards change. By becoming aware of the stories we tell ourselves, we can start to question their validity. Are these narratives based on a few isolated incidents? Are they influenced by past trauma or fear? And most importantly, are they serving us in a positive way? Shifting these narratives isn’t about ignoring past hurts or pretending negative events never happened. It's about reframing our stories in a way that empowers us rather than holds us back. We can choose to see ourselves as resilient and capable, even if we've faced significant challenges. We can create new, positive narratives that reflect our strength, growth, and potential. If this resonates with you, I encourage you to take a moment to reflect on the stories you tell yourself. Are they uplifting or limiting? Are they true, or are they based on selective memories and past fears? By questioning and reframing these narratives, we can open up new possibilities for growth and self-love. For more insights and personal stories, tune into my podcast, The Divine Style, where we explore these themes and much more. Let’s embrace this journey of self-discovery and narrative reframing together.
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Gerlinda StellaI'm passionate about empowering women to embrace self-love and spiritual growth, I offer insights into psychology, metaphysics, and personal styling as your go-to Psychic Medium, Spiritual Mentor, and Personal Stylist Past Articles
November 2024
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