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Step Into Clarity: Reflect, Release, and Renew

23/11/2024

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When I think of Christmas, I think of family. For many, this season brings joy, warmth, and connection. But it’s also a time when emotions can run high. As Ram Dass wisely said, “If you think you’re enlightened, spend a week with your family.”

Family gatherings have a way of stirring up old emotions, pulling us into long-forgotten roles—the peacekeeper, the organiser, the one who gets picked on, or even the teaser. And while these roles may be familiar, they can also feel heavy.

Then there’s the grief, the quiet ache of missing loved ones who are no longer with us. Christmas has a way of making their presence felt even more deeply, whether it’s a pet who once curled up under the tree, a friend who used to make you laugh, or a family member whose seat at the table remains empty.

I’ve found comfort in honouring their memory. I love to light a candle and say a prayer for them - a simple but meaningful way to keep their spirit close. It’s a small ritual that's a reminder that love doesn’t end, even when someone is no longer physically here.

Amidst the giving, the gatherings, and the inevitable hustle and bustle, I’ve also learned the importance of honouring myself. Christmas can be overwhelming, with so much to do and so many emotions in the air. Taking time to pause, reflect, and nurture myself has become an essential part of how I move through the season.

Here’s a simple process to reflect, release, and renew - so you can step Into clarity for 2025. 

1. Reflect: Embrace Gratitude and Awareness
Take some time to ask yourself:
  • What moments brought me joy, growth, or unexpected blessings?
  • What challenges helped me become stronger or wiser?
  • Who or what am I most grateful for - including those I’ve loved and lost?
Tip: Send little messages of gratitude this Christmas to let others know you care. A kind word or a heartfelt note not only brings warmth to their day but fills your heart with love too.

2. Release: Let Go of What No Longer Serves You
Consider what you’d like to release:
  • Old habits or beliefs that no longer align with who you are.
  • Resentments or unresolved emotions that weigh on your heart.
  • The pressure to meet unrealistic expectations - yours or others’.
Tip: Write down what you want to release on paper, and if it feels right, safely burn it. Watch as those heavy thoughts dissolve, making way for freedom and lightness.

3. Renew: Set Intentions with Clarity and Purpose
Ask yourself:
  • What kind of energy do I want to bring into my life?
  • What new creations would I like to bring to fruition?
  • What small, meaningful steps can I take to align with my heart’s desires?
Tip: Create a mantra to guide you, such as: “I accept the past and embrace the present.” or "I welcome abundance, creativity, and love into my life." Repeat these daily to anchor your intentions.

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Amidst the giving and the gatherings, the greatest gift you can give is love - to others and to yourself.

​Much Love,
Gerlinda xx
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    Gerlinda Stella

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