Growing up under the guidance of my deeply Christian mother, I was immersed in a world where belief in the unseen was as natural as breathing – a realm of God, Jesus, and angels. Alongside these teachings, my mother entrusted me with the knowledge of her secret gift, a skill kept hidden due to the church's disapproval: psychometry. She taught me to listen to the silent stories that inanimate objects like a ring or a photograph could tell, showing me how to use my psychic senses to receive messages. She believed, as do I, that the ability to perceive beyond the physical senses is not unique to a chosen few. Indeed, we all possess this innate potential; it simply requires practice and the tranquility of a meditative mind to unlock it.

These senses, while appearing extraordinary, are not beyond the scope of our natural capabilities. They are, in truth, enhanced versions of our everyday experiences – sharpened, focused, and deepened through intent and practice, much like the fine-tuning of an instrument. Meditation serves as a key tool in this tuning process, quieting the mind's chatter to allow the subtler frequencies of intuition and insight to emerge.

Understanding Psychic Senses

The realm of psychic senses, or 'clair' abilities, is a fascinating and often misunderstood area of human potential. While these senses may seem extraordinary or even supernatural to some, it's important to recognise that they are extensions of the normal human senses, amplified and honed through various means, including meditation.

Clairsentience: The Emotional Compass

Clairsentience is one of the most common psychic senses, rooted deeply in our instinctual nature. It's our inner feeling centre that often acts as a survival mechanism, alerting us to potential danger or promising opportunities. This intuitive feeling manifests as gut reactions to certain situations or people. Clairsentience can be honed through mindfulness and by paying close attention to these gut feelings as they arise.

Clairvoyance: Visions Beyond Sight

Clairvoyance, or clear seeing, involves the ability to perceive visions beyond what the physical eyes can see. This may include seeing colours, images, or even entire scenes unfolding in the mind's eye, often associated with the 'third eye' chakra located in the centre of the forehead. Practising visualisation during meditation can strengthen this ability, allowing one to receive messages or insights in the form of mental imagery.

Clairempathy: The Emotional Mirror

Those with clairempathy possess a heightened ability to feel the emotions of others around them. This can be both a gift and a challenge, as it involves sensing and, sometimes, taking on the mood of those in close proximity. It's crucial for individuals with this sense to learn discernment and protective techniques through meditation and grounding exercises to distinguish between their own emotions and those of others.

Clairgustance: Tastes from Beyond

Clairgustance is a rarer psychic sense involving the perception of taste without physical contact. It is often reported during readings or spiritual communications, with the medium tasting a specific food that is significant to the spirit or the recipient of the message. Meditation focusing on the senses can enhance this form of psychic perception.

Clairalience: The Scent of Spirit

Similarly, clairalience or 'clair-smelliance' is the psychic sense of smell. This can manifest as detecting fragrances associated with a deceased loved one or significant places without any physical source. Training the mind to become more aware of and receptive to such experiences through contemplative practices can sharpen this sense.

Claircognizance: Intuitive Knowing

Claircognizance, or clear knowing, is a sense where one simply 'knows' something to be true without knowing how or why. This can pertain to events yet to occur or understanding complex situations without having all the data. Developing this sense typically involves enhancing one's connection to the universal consciousness through deep meditation and trust in one's intuitive insights.

Clairtangency: Psychometric Insights

Clairtangency, or psychometry, is the ability to receive information about a person or an object through touch. Practitioners may receive images, sounds, or emotions related to the object or its owner. Sensitising oneself to the energetic imprints objects carry can be developed through practices such as holding objects during meditation to see what insights arise.

Clairaudience: Hearing the Unheard

Finally, clairaudience entails hearing messages from the spirit world. This might sound like words or music that no one else can hear, often perceived as an internal auditory experience. Meditation with a focus on opening the ear chakras and clearing the mind of chatter can help in recognising and interpreting these subtle messages.

Using Meditation to Tune In

Meditation is a powerful tool for developing psychic senses. It helps quiet the mind, allowing the subtler senses to become more apparent. By sitting in silence, focusing on the breath, and setting the intention to open up to these expanded ways of sensing, individuals can begin to cultivate their psychic abilities. Over time, with patience and practice, it's possible to develop a keen awareness of these senses and integrate them into daily life for personal guidance and the benefit of others.

It's important to approach the development of psychic senses with a sense of balance and grounding. Incorporating these practices into one's life should be done responsibly and ethically, with a focus on the greater good and personal well-being.

Ready to tap into your psychic potential and embrace a journey of self-discovery? As a spiritual mentor, I’m here to guide you. Connect with me, and let's unlock the power of your intuition together.

Book a session to start your transformative journey. 

Much Love,
Gerlinda xx

The Invisible Standards

Hello to all the incredible souls out there! Have you ever found yourself entangled in a web of societal expectations, feeling as if you just don't measure up? Do you feel burdened by standards of beauty and success that seem designed to make you feel "less than"? You're not alone.

What if I told you that your radiant beauty has been there all along, just waiting for you to notice it? What if the true path to beauty lies not in conforming to external norms, but in embracing your authentic self? Today, I want to share my personal story to demonstrate how self-love and spiritual mentorship can lead us to rediscover the phenomenal individuals we always were.

My Journey: From Self-Doubt to Self-Love

As a child, I felt different and was teased for my appearance. I had freckles on my face and arms, my teeth and lips 'they' said were too large, my stature was too small, and my hair was frizzy. Each glance in the mirror served as a painful reminder that I didn't fit the conventional mould. As I transitioned into my teenage years, these feelings of inadequacy intensified.

Life threw me a curveball when I was 16: a cyst in my breast required surgery. The physical healing was only one part of the process; this period became an opportunity for deep introspection. It was a  turning point that led me down the path of self-love, and to realise how my own negative perceptions about myself were doing more harm than any external judgment.

Absolutely, a self-love body meditation can be a profound practice for your clients, especially those who might be struggling with body image or physical self-acceptance. Here is a guided exercise tailored for this purpose:

Self-Love Body Meditation

This meditation encourages a harmonious and loving relationship with one’s body, fostering appreciation and care for its uniqueness and beauty. It aims to shift the focus from criticism to gratitude, recognising the body not only as a physical vessel but also as a temple of the spirit.

- Find a comfortable and quiet space where you won't be interrupted.
- Wear comfortable clothing that doesn't restrict any part of your body.
- Sit or lie down in a comfortable position, using cushions or blankets as needed.

1. Grounding: Begin by taking three deep, cleansing breaths. With each inhalation, visualise calmness flowing into your body, and with each exhalation, release tension and stress.

2. Scan for Tension: Gently close your eyes and conduct a body scan from the crown of your head to the tips of your toes. Notice any areas of tension or discomfort without judgment, simply acknowledging them.

3. Express Gratitude: As you bring awareness to each part of your body, express gratitude for the role it plays in your life. For example, thank your feet for carrying you through the world, your hands for their ability to create and touch, your heart for its steady rhythm that sustains you, and so on.

4. Affirmation for Each Body Part: With a focus on self-love and acceptance, offer an affirmation to each part of your body. You may say:
   
   - "I love and appreciate my legs for supporting me."
   - "I cherish my arms for their strength and embrace."
   - "I honour my stomach, regardless of its shape or size, for its role in nourishing me."
   - Continue this process for as many body parts as you like, offering kind words and gratitude.

5. Embrace Imperfections: Acknowledge areas of your body you might typically criticise. Offer them love and acceptance, visualising any negative energy being replaced with a loving, warm light. For instance, "I send love to my scars, they are a sign of my strength and resilience."

6. Heart-Centred Healing: Place your hands over your heart. Feel its rhythm and warmth. Imagine a radiant light emanating from your heart, enveloping your entire body in a glow of self-love and acceptance.

7. Release and Breathe: With each breath, let this light expand, dissolving any remaining traces of discomfort or self-criticism. Breathe in self-love; breathe out gratitude.

8. Closing Gratitude: Conclude your meditation by silently thanking your body for its inherent beauty and the journey it has carried you through. Promise to continue this practice of self-love and to honour the temple that is your body.

9. Gentle Return: When you’re ready, gently wiggle your fingers and toes, slowly opening your eyes. Return to your surroundings with a renewed sense of love and appreciation for your unique physical self.

Begin with a 5 to 10-minute session and gradually increase the time as you become more comfortable with the practice. Regularity is key—daily practice can significantly enhance the journey towards self-love and bodily acceptance.

The Sanctuary of Spiritual Mentoring

In light of my own journey, my mission has evolved into a desire to guide incredible individuals like you on their paths to self-love. My spiritual mentoring programme serves as a sanctuary—a place to explore, challenge, and heal. Together, we'll dive deep into your soul's landscape and confront the limiting beliefs that have kept you from loving yourself. We'll challenge societal norms that have, intentionally or not, dimmed your inner light. 

The Path to Self-Love: Your Next Steps

Don't let the weight of external expectations or your own self-doubt deter you from celebrating the extraordinary person you already are. If you're curious to discover how we can reshape your journey towards self-love, feel free to reply to this message or explore my website for more information about my spiritual mentoring programme.

Your Journey Awaits

You're not alone in this quest for self-love and self-acceptance. By joining hands, we can unearth the love, joy, and beauty that has always been a part of you. As you take these crucial steps toward self-love, I'm sending warmth, love, and positive vibes your way.

Much love,
Gerlinda xx

Emotions are a potent force in our lives. They drive our actions, shape our relationships, and influence our well-being. Despite their impact, many people struggle to harness their emotional energy effectively. Mismanagement of emotions can lead to mental exhaustion, misunderstandings, and unhealthy patterns of behaviour. However, with a conscious effort and the right tools, one can turn this emotional energy into a catalyst for personal and even spiritual growth. 

Before you can transmute your emotional energy, you must first understand the range of emotions you're capable of experiencing. Emotions aren't just "good" or "bad"; they exist on a spectrum that includes a variety of feelings from joy to sorrow, and anger to love. Each emotion serves a purpose, providing valuable insights into your needs, desires, and boundaries. 

To understand your emotions better, you must first accept them for what they are—natural, human responses to external and internal stimuli. Suppressing feelings or failing to acknowledge them can lead to emotional outbursts and increased stress levels. Own your emotions, and you'll find that it's the first step in gaining control over them. 

Mindfulness is the practice of being present in the moment, and it can be particularly helpful in understanding and harnessing your emotional energy. Practising mindfulness allows you to observe your feelings without judgement, which is crucial for the next steps in this emotional mastery journey.

Practical Steps

1. Pause and Breathe: Whenever you feel an emotion rising, pause for a moment. Take deep breaths and try to isolate what exactly you're feeling.
  
2. Identify the Source: Trace the emotion back to its source. Was it a comment from a colleague? A childhood memory? Identifying the source provides you with a base to work from.
  
3. Challenge Negative Emotions: Self-doubt and fear often stem from negative inner voices. Challenge these perceptions by questioning their validity. Are they facts or just limiting beliefs?

Transformative Techniques 

Writing:
Journaling can be an excellent tool for harnessing emotional energy. Writing down what you feel helps in clarifying your thoughts and identifying patterns. You can also track triggers and your reactions to them, providing actionable insights.

Movement:
Physical activities like exercise or even simple stretches can be excellent ways to channel emotional energy. Physical exertion releases endorphins, which naturally elevates your mood and gives you a new perspective on troubling emotions.

​Mindfulness:
Meditation, yoga, and other spiritual practices can provide you with a sense of balance and calm. These activities not only promote physical well-being but also facilitate emotional and spiritual growth.

Redirect Emotional Energy into Purposeful Action:
Once you've mastered the art of understanding and accepting your emotional energy, the next step is to channel it into constructive outlets. Use your newfound emotional intelligence to foster better relationships, set healthy boundaries, and pursue your passions.

Transmuting your emotional energy is an ongoing process that requires commitment and practice. However, the rewards are well worth the effort, as you'll find that your relationships, mental health, and overall well-being improve significantly when you learn to master your emotional self. Remember, emotions are not obstacles but guides on your path to personal and spiritual growth.

Much Love, 
​Gerlinda xx

Fashion: A Reflection of the Soul
Fashion is so much more than the outfits we choose each morning; it's a beautiful reflection of our inner world and our stance towards life itself. For many women grappling with self-doubt, low self-esteem, or challenging relationships, making conscious fashion choices can be a powerful gateway to personal and spiritual empowerment.

Wardrobe Rediscovery: Finding Yourself in Fabric
Ever feel like you've fallen for every season's trends and yet find your wardrobe saying, "nothing to wear"? It's time for a beautiful shift. Dive into the depths of your closet to uncover those long-forgotten gems. Blending cherished old favourites with newer finds doesn't just craft new outfits, it reconnects you with your unique style. In a world keen on telling us who to be, dressing true to yourself becomes a profound act of spiritual rebellion and self-love.

The Alchemy of Tailoring: Clothes That Transform With You
Your journey of transformation isn't yours alone; your wardrobe can journey with you. That long-neglected gown? Picture it reborn as a chic cocktail dress, a fitting symbol of your own evolution. Tailoring not only breathes new life into your clothes but also echoes sustainable practices, mirroring the healthy boundaries we set in our lives. It’s about cherishing and respecting value, in our clothes and our selves.

Sacred Thrifting: The Joy of Discovering Preloved Treasures
Venture into the world of second-hand shops, vintage havens, and car boot sales. These are treasure troves where unique style meets affordability, allowing you to stand out from the fast-fashion crowd. Opting for preloved not only champions sustainability but also lets you craft a personal style narrative, distinct and beautifully yours.

Quality as a Spiritual Mantra: Elevate Your Presence with Intention
In the realm of fashion, it’s not about having more, but about choosing better. Curating a selection of quality pieces paired with striking accessories allows you to express yourself authentically. It's not about mimicking luxury, it's about empowerment. Shine in your own light, and let your style be a testament to your resilience and grace, just like a cubic zirconia shines as brightly as any diamond.

Communal Closet: Sharing the Spiritual Wealth
Clothing swaps are a heart-warming blend of environmental consciousness and community connection. They invite us to let go of the old and welcome the new, reminding us that our value lies not in possessions but in our connections with others. They're a celebration of collective support among women on similar paths.

Embracing Conscious Fashion: A Lifestyle of Love
Conscious fashion is more than a trend, it’s a lifestyle that supports your journey towards deeper self-love and holistic well-being. When you view your wardrobe as an extension of your inner self, each choice becomes a loving, intentional act for your own good and the greater good.
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So, whether you’re reviving your wardrobe, refreshing a beloved piece at the tailor, choosing preloved treasures, experimenting with new combinations, or swapping clothes with friends, remember each action is a step towards a more sustainable, authentic, self-loving, and spiritually aligned existence.

Much Love, 
​Gerlinda xx

Hello, beautiful souls. If you've landed on this page, chances are you're going through a difficult phase of self-doubt and negative self-talk. You're not alone. Many women face these challenges, especially when dealing with a history of relationships that have impacted their self-esteem or struggling to set healthy boundaries. But remember, you have the power to change your story, and it starts with overcoming that self-doubt. 

Understand the Root of Your Self-Doubt
The first step to overcoming self-doubt is understanding where it stems from. Often, self-doubt is ingrained from early life experiences, societal norms, or past relationships. If you're struggling with suppressed emotions and fear of confrontation, it may have originated from an environment where your feelings were invalidated.

Exercise: Dig Deep
Take some time to journal about when you first started feeling this self-doubt. Identifying the root cause is the cornerstone of healing and moving forward.

Challenge Your Inner Critic
That voice inside your head telling you that you're not good enough? It's time to challenge it. Our brains are wired for negativity as a survival mechanism, but that doesn't mean we have to let those thoughts rule us.

Exercise: Question Your Thoughts
Next time you have a negative thought about your abilities, stop and ask yourself: "Is this thought based on facts or assumptions?" More often than not, you'll find that your doubts are based on imagined scenarios and not reality.

Set Healthy Boundaries
Many women struggle with setting healthy boundaries and end up over-giving, which leads to exhaustion and fuels self-doubt. Recognise that it's okay to say no and to put your own needs first. 

Exercise: Practice Saying No
Start small. The next time someone asks you for a favour that you genuinely don't have the time or energy for, politely decline. Notice how it feels to prioritise your own needs.

Seek Support and Speak Openly
One of the biggest challenges you might face is feeling misunderstood by others. When you can't articulate your needs or emotions, it fosters a cycle of self-doubt and isolation. Reach out for support. Whether it's a trusted friend, family member, or a spiritual mentor, opening up can be incredibly liberating.

Exercise: Open Conversations
Initiate a heartfelt conversation with someone you trust. Share your fears, your struggles, and let yourself be heard.

Embrace Failure as a Learning Opportunity
The fear of failure is a potent fuel for self-doubt. But remember, failure is not the end of the road; it's a learning curve. By reframing how you perceive failure, you take away its power to induce doubt.

Exercise: Celebrate Small Wins
Instead of focusing on what you haven't achieved, celebrate your small victories. Each win, no matter how minor, is a step towards self-confidence and away from self-doubt.

Overcoming self-doubt is not an overnight process, but each step you take brings you closer to a life where you are free to be yourself, unapologetically. As you embark on this journey, know that you're worthy of love, success, and all the beautiful experiences that life has to offer. 

Remember, you have the power to rewrite your story, one page at a time. 

Much Love, 
Gerlinda xx

Do you often find yourself overthinking or stuck in unhealthy patterns? What if there was a way to navigate a way self-love and acceptance? The good news is, what you seek resides within you, in the form of your thoughts. This blog aims to guide you on harnessing the power of thought, employing affirmations, mindfulness, and meditation as tools to bridge the gap between your conscious and unconscious minds.

Understanding the Conscious and Unconscious Mind
The conscious mind serves as your day-to-day operational hub, managing your thoughts, actions, and feelings that you are actively aware of. In contrast, the unconscious mind is a vault of emotions, memories, and experiences that you may not consciously think about but that still influence your life. Bridging the divide between these two minds can pave the way for transformative self-discovery and spiritual growth.

Why Does This Matter to You?
For those grappling with issues such as self-doubt, eroded self-esteem, or fear of failure, understanding this division is crucial. Many of these struggles emanate from the unconscious mind. Affirmations, mindfulness, and meditation offer pathways to unearth these buried thoughts and address them consciously.

Affirmations: The Seeds of Positive Change
Affirmations are succinct, positive statements tailored to challenge and combat negative thoughts and behaviours. When repeated consistently, they can alter the neural pathways of your mind.

Effective Use of Affirmations
1. Specificity Matters: Choose affirmations that are precise and relevant to your unique journey.
2. Make it Personal: The more personal the affirmation, the greater the emotional impact.
3. Be Consistent: Regular repetition is the cornerstone of making affirmations effective.
4. Connect Emotionally: Emotionally engage with the affirmations for enhanced impact.

​"I am deserving of love, respect, and kindness."
"I am capable and strong, and I embrace challenges as opportunities for growth."
"Every day, I am becoming more in tune with my true self."
"I release the need for validation from others; my self-worth comes from within."
"I set healthy boundaries and prioritise my well-being."

Mindfulness: Living in the Now
Mindfulness is the practice of attentively focusing on the present moment, a powerful method to become aware of unconscious thoughts and behaviours. 

How to Practise Mindfulness
1. Create a Quiet Space: Eliminate distractions.
2. Breath Awareness: Focus on your breathing to anchor yourself in the moment.
3. Non-Judgmental Observation: Acknowledge your thoughts without judging them.
4. Regular Practice: Consistency is vital in mindfulness practice as well.

Meditation: Quieting the Mind
Meditation is another potent tool for unlocking your unconscious mind. It provides a quiet space for you to shut out external noise and delve deep into your inner world.

Steps to Integrate Meditation
1. Find Your Space: Choose a tranquil location that enhances focus.
2. Begin with Short Sessions: Even a few minutes can be impactful.
3. Combine with Affirmations: Once deeply relaxed, introduce your chosen affirmations.

Combining Affirmations, Mindfulness, and Meditation
Using these techniques in tandem can create a holistic approach to understanding your inner workings. During your meditation or mindfulness sessions, gently integrate your affirmations. This practice can help you tune into your emotional responses and bring unconscious thoughts to light.

Mastering the power of thought can propel you towards greater spiritual understanding, enrich your grasp on metaphysics, and promote psychological well-being. With affirmations, mindfulness, and meditation, you have a trinity of powerful tools to delve into your unconscious mind, confront what you find, and start the journey towards self-love and acceptance. 

For those interested in going deeper, consider following our Divine Style Podcast or one of my one-on-one sessions. The journey towards self-discovery and spiritual enlightenment is just a click away.

Much Love, 
Gerlinda xx

Disclaimer/Trigger Warning: This blog post discusses themes of emotional and verbal abuse which may be distressing for some readers. Please prioritise your well-being when choosing to read on. If you are experiencing or have experienced abuse, support is available, and you are not alone.

Each of us has defining moments in our lives, chapters that shape our journey and impart lessons learned the hard way. Here’s my story, which speaks not only of the challenges some of us face but also of the strength and resilience that lie within.

It began with a spontaneous night out, leading to waking up in a hotel room alongside someone I had just met. His morning compliment, "You’re so beautiful," might have been charming, had I not woken up with a dishevelled appearance. But what started as a mere compliment turned into a day filled with them. We spent the day together, and I was showered with flattering remarks I had unknowingly longed to hear. Each gesture, each compliment seemed like a promise of a brighter tomorrow.

Our relationship took off at lightning speed. With promises of eternal love, whirlwind dates, and extravagant gestures, it felt too good to be true. And perhaps, it was. A proposal came within a month, and we were wed a year later. However, the honeymoon phase faded swiftly. Alcohol unveiled a darker side to my partner, one that frequently reduced me to feeling worthless with cutting words and sharp rebukes.

Yet, eight years and three children into our marriage, a revelation awaited. Behind the four walls of our picturesque home lay a world filled with emotional and verbal abuse. But hope arrived in the form of therapy, encouraged by a caring friend. The sessions were transformative, illuminating the depth of the abuse I had endured and emphasising the importance of self-love and self-worth. In the end, I had enough self-love left to leave.

Sharing this is very difficult; it touches deep vulnerabilities. I sobbed the first time I was shown the violence wheel. As I read each section, I realised that was the life I had been living for over eight years. Caught up in a cycle that I couldn’t seem to escape. The violence I experienced wasn’t external but internal. The wounds he inflicted during our marriage were deep on the inside.

He never punched me, broke my bones, or made me bleed, although I was scared one day he would. At 24, I had three young children and a husband who would blame his explosive temper on work, the kids, alcohol but mainly he would blame me. Everything was my fault, at the time I honestly believed I couldn't do anything right.

I was told I was a hopeless driver, cook, cleaner, mother. I was called a slut, a whore, a bitch, and worse. I was told what to wear and how to act. I needed his approval for everything, down to the brand of butter we bought. It got to the point I didn’t know who I was anymore.

All I knew was fear, I feared his outbursts and rages, I feared him killing himself, I feared him killing me but what I feared more was the life I was exposing my children to. I did not want my son or daughters to think it was okay to treat anyone or be treated the way their father treated me.
I tried so many times to leave only to return with the promise he would change. Something within me knew he would never change. But still, I stayed believing that I was lucky that he loved me, who else would?

With the support of my family, I decided 'this time' I would definitely leave. I packed my most prized possessions in the car, went upstairs to grab one last thing and that is when he assaulted me. This was the first and last time he would physically hurt me.

He shoved me against a wall, my head smacked hard against it. I was left with countless bruises all over my arms where he had held me tight. I pushed him off with all my strength and turned to see one of my prized possessions staring at me. My son had gotten out of the car to look for me.

I’ll never forget the look on my seven-year-old boy’s face. The look of fear, sadness, anger, and confusion all rolled into one. That look was exactly how I felt for eight long years. My children gave me the strength I needed to stand up for them and myself. Due to this I was able to give a statement to police. As my son witnessed the domestic violence, the police were able to issue my now ex-husband a court summons for a DVO. After this, he moved overseas and we had no contact.

I left with nothing except a few clothes and photos. I had to rebuild my entire life. What I got to keep was far more precious and irreplaceable, our beautiful kids. They have grown into very happy, well-adjusted adults, reflecting the strength and resilience I could only dream of.

My journey through these dark times led me to my current work as a psychic medium, self-love coach, and personal stylist. It taught me the importance of setting boundaries and nurturing self-love, allowing me to guide others in their paths to healing and empowerment.

​If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, don’t keep it a secret. Speak out. There is hope, and you are stronger than you think. You deserve a life filled with love and respect. Embrace your story as a stepping stone to a brighter, self-empowered future.

Much Love, 
Gerlinda xx

Finding your soulmate is not just a matter of chance but also one of choice. While I'm a parent to young adults who are currently dating, I realise that regardless of your stage in life, the principles of intentional dating remain the same. This goes beyond initial attraction and delves into building a strong foundation for a lifetime of love. One such approach to dating with intention is creating what I call your "Magic Love List". Coupled with setting healthy boundaries, this list can serve as your roadmap to finding your soulmate.

The Power of Taking it Slow

When it comes to dating, especially with the prospect of finding your soulmate, it can be tempting to rush through the 'getting to know each other' phase. Yet, slowing down offers invaluable insights into someone's character, beliefs, and long-term suitability. Not only does it allow you to vet potential matches against your "Magic Love List", but it also gives room for your intuition to speak. Remember, your soulmate will not just align with you on a superficial level but will resonate with your very core.

No Quick Judgments, Know Your Deal-Breakers

First impressions, though impactful, can be deceiving. Avoid jumping to conclusions based on someone’s looks or initial interactions. Instead, give yourself time to learn more about this person and how they align with what you’ve listed on your Magic Love List. It’s also important to know what your deal-breakers are. These are the things that you can't overlook and should be non-negotiable when searching for your soulmate.

Honouring Your Boundaries and Recognising Red Flags

Part of the journey towards finding your soulmate is honouring your own boundaries. Know when to say no, when to take a step back, and when to walk away. If something doesn't feel right or if there are warning signs that a person isn't who you thought they were, pay attention. Your red flags are your soul’s way of telling you that something is off. Trust yourself and your intuition.

Crafting Your Magic Love List

Creating your Magic Love List involves more than jotting down a wish list of attractive qualities. It requires deep introspection about what you genuinely desire and need for a lifelong partnership. 

Steps to Crafting Your Magic Love List:

1. Core Values: Your soulmate will naturally align with your fundamental values, whether it’s spirituality, family importance, or ethical beliefs.

2. Lifestyle Compatibility: This could range from wanting someone who enjoys bushwalks to someone who is passionate about their career.

3. Emotional and Psychological Traits: Consider attributes like emotional intelligence, communication skills, and resilience when making your list.

4. Physical and Sexual Chemistry: While this should not be the sole factor, physical attraction and sexual compatibility can play a role in lifelong happiness.

5. Review and Revise: Your Magic Love List isn’t set in stone. As you evolve, your list might too. Always keep it updated to reflect your current needs and desires.

Dating with the intention of finding your soulmate involves setting healthy boundaries, understanding your own needs, and creating your Magic Love List to guide you through your journey. When you combine these elements, you don’t just leave your love life up to fate; you take active steps in co-creating a beautiful future with your soulmate. So go ahead, create your Magic Love List and take that empowered step towards true love.

Crafting you Magic Love List is an intimate process that sometimes needs a guiding hand. I offer specialised Soulmate Sessions designed to help you articulate your deepest desires and needs, giving you clarity in your search for a lifelong partner. By the end of our session, you'll have a refined Magic Love List and a renewed sense of purpose in your quest for love.

Feel free to contact me for more information about these empowering Soulmate Sessions. Together, we can make sure you're on the right path to attracting the love that you truly deserve.

Much Love, 
Gerlinda xx

As women, we often find ourselves juggling multiple roles, constantly seeking to meet everyone's expectations. But how often do we pause and tend to our own needs? How frequently do we treat ourselves not out of necessity but simply out of love?

Enter the realm of self-care, exquisite activities and rituals designed to rejuvenate our body, mind, and soul. Let's dive deep into these indulgences that are not just luxuries, but essential acts of self-love.

1. Day Spas: There's nothing quite like the therapeutic touch of skilled hands, combined with aromatic oils, to soothe our senses. A spa day helps in melting away stress, promoting relaxation, and recharging our body.

2. Manicures and Pedicures: Beyond just having polished nails, this is a ritual. It's about taking time out, choosing colours that reflect our mood, and leaving with a sense of satisfaction and boosted confidence.

3. Hair Spa: A deep-conditioning treatment, a scalp massage, and the sheer joy of running our fingers through soft, rejuvenated hair – a hair spa is not just about aesthetics but also about the uplifting feeling it provides.

4. Shopping Days: Retail therapy, when done mindfully, can be therapeutic. It's about self-expression, understanding our style, and celebrating our individuality.

5. Float Tanks: Dive into sensory deprivation in a float tank. Let the salts lift you as you drift into a meditative state, letting go of stress and emerging with clarity.

6. Facials: Revitalising our skin, a facial is a testament to taking care of our external self, appreciating our skin's needs, and nurturing it.

7. Bubble Baths: Light up some candles, play some soft music, and slide into a warm bubble bath. It's a space where time stands still, and the world outside doesn't matter.

8. Reading a Book: Escaping into another world, understanding different perspectives, or simply acquiring knowledge – reading is a beautiful way to nourish our mind.

9. Being in Nature: From a walk in the park to hiking up a mountain, nature offers a unique kind of therapy. It grounds us, reminding us of our connection to the world.

10. Painting or Colouring: Unleash your inner artist. Whether it's abstract art, a beautiful scenery, or simply colouring, this activity is therapeutic and lets our creativity flow.

Incorporating these self-care rituals into our lives is not just about indulgence, but about acknowledging our worth. They serve as reminders that amidst our busy lives, we deserve moments of respite, beauty, and self-appreciation. As women, when we love and care for ourselves deeply, we radiate positivity, confidence, and grace. Remember, self-love isn't a destination; it's a journey, one that starts with self-care.

Much Love, 
​Gerlinda xx

​Whether you're looking to boost your confidence, calm your mind, or ignite your creativity, the colours you wear can have a powerful impact on your emotions and energy levels.

• Mood Shift: Wearing violet can enhance your creative thinking, connect you to your spiritual side, and promote a sense of inner peace.
• Spiritual Meaning: Violet is considered to be a spiritual colour that connects to the higher mind and divine wisdom. It is often associated with the crown chakra, which is linked to enlightenment and self-realisation.
• Tips: Incorporate violet into your wardrobe with accessories like scarves, jewellery, or handbags for a subtle pop of colour. If you're not used to wearing this colour, try violet pyjamas. ​

• Mood Shift: Wearing deep blue or navy can create a sense of stability and security, and enhance your self-assurance and professionalism.
• Spiritual Meaning: Deep blue is considered to be a colour of wisdom and intuition. It is often associated with the third eye chakra, which is linked to perception and insight.
• Tips: Choose deep blue or navy blazers, trousers, or dresses for a polished and confident look. ​

• Mood Shift: Wearing true red can ignite your passion, increase your energy levels, and make you feel more confident and bold.
• Spiritual Meaning: Red is considered to be a colour of strength and vitality. It is often associated with the root chakra, which is linked to grounding and physical energy.
• Tips: Incorporate true red into your wardrobe with tops, dresses, or accessories for a statement look that stands out. If you're not used to wearing this bright colour, try red lingerie or a red heels.

Remember, the colours you choose to wear can have a powerful effect on how you feel, so choose wisely and have fun experimenting with different hues! If you'd like more assistance in exploring how you can use the power of colour in your wardrobe, home, or life, contact me. I offer channelled readings, spiritual mentoring, and style coaching to help you harness the transformative power of colour in all areas of your life. If you like more information about my services contact me. ​