From Shadows to Light: A Journey of Self-Rediscovery and Resilience

Every individual has moments in life that shape their journey, lessons learned the hard way. Here's a tale that not only speaks about the harsh realities some face but also shines a light on the strength and resilience that resides within us.

After a spontaneous night out, she found herself waking up in a hotel room, alongside someone she had just met. His words, "You’re so beautiful", might have been charming, had she not woken up with a disheveled appearance. But, what started as a mere compliment turned into a day filled with them. They spent the day together, and she was showered with flattering remarks she had longed to hear. Every gesture, every compliment, seemed like a promise of a better tomorrow.

Their relationship took off at lightning speed. With promises of eternal love, whirlwind dates, and extravagant gestures, it felt too good to be true. And perhaps, it was. A proposal came within a month, and they were wed a year later. However, the honeymoon phase faded swiftly. Alcohol unveiled a darker side to her partner, one that frequently reduced her to feeling worthless with cutting words and sharp rebukes.

Yet, eight years and three children into their marriage, a revelation awaited. Behind the four walls of their picturesque home, lay a world filled with emotional and verbal abuse. But hope arrived in the form of therapy, encouraged by a caring friend. The sessions were transformative, illuminating the depth of the abuse she had endured and emphasising the importance of self-love and self-worth. In the end, she had enough self-love left to leave.

The story serves as a poignant reminder: your worth is not defined by others, and true happiness starts from within. And if you're wondering who this resilient woman is - she is me.

Much Love, 
Gerlinda xx