Life AFter Death

For years, I was sceptical of psychics and mediums, often trying to explain away dreams, visions, or voices as mere coincidences. It wasn't until my own experiences changed my perspective that I began to believe these encounters were real. I've been working as a psychic medium, specialising in evidential mediumship, for over four years now. This approach focuses on providing specific, verifiable information.

Recently, the loss of loved ones reminded me how challenging it can be to connect during grief. In December, my favourite uncle passed away, and just a few weeks ago, in April, we lost my dear father-in-law. Grief can make it difficult to feel their presence, but through acceptance, I've found it easier to connect with them. It takes time and practice, but the comfort and guidance they offer are worth it.

Insights on the Afterlife

​Being a psychic medium doesn’t make me immune to grief. However, I find immense comfort in knowing that there is life after death. Some of the most profound lessons I’ve learned have come from my own loved ones who have communicated with me from the other side.

Messages through dreams: My mum's brother, Uncle Gary (my favourite), after his passing came to me in a dream. He was dancing, looking happy and free, which brought me comfort. I felt the presence of many spirits at his funeral, including my Nan and Pop. I asked them what they were doing there, and they explained that they were learning about the impact of Uncle Gary’s life. They conveyed that every action, from raising children to being a good friend, and even a simple smile to a stranger on the street, was acknowledged as a form of impact.

Connection through meditation: A few years ago involved my uncle Paul, who was mentally impaired from birth and lived in England. I had only met him a few times in my life, so I was surprised when he visited me during a meditation. He appeared completely healed, wearing a suit, and wanted to let me know that he was doing well and was looking out for me. When I asked my dad why his brother would show up in a suit, he explained that Uncle Paul always loved wearing suits. This detail, which I had no prior knowledge of, reinforced the truth of the connection.

Connection through conversation: The recent passing of my husband’s father was a massive shock to us all. I immediately tried to contact him but was told he was busy catching up with his late wife, mother, father and sister. He needed time in what I understood to be a sort of retreat to adjust to his new state. After almost a week, he communicated with me, jokingly saying, “Who’d have thought I’d be speaking to you like this?” His humour came through straight away, this provided much comfort to my husband and myself. 

Connecting with the spirit world are like speaking another language. Each of us has our own communication strengths. For me, I can hear, see, and sense the messages. These experiences continually remind me of the profound connections that transcend physical existence and provide solace in times of grief.

Signs from Loved Ones
If you’re navigating grief, remember that our loved ones continue to watch over us, sending signs of their presence and love. Here are a few signs and ways to foster this connection:

• Birds and Butterflies: Seeing a bird or butterfly at a significant moment can be a sign from your loved one.
• Rainbows: A rainbow can serve as a beautiful reminder of their presence.
• Songs: Hearing a particular song on the radio can be a message from beyond.
• Meditation: Spend quiet time in meditation, focusing on your loved one. This can help you feel their presence and receive their messages.
• Journaling: Writing down your thoughts, memories, and any signs you believe are from your loved one can strengthen your connection and provide comfort.
• Letter Writing: Write a message directly to your loved one, it can be immensely healing, offering a way to express your feelings and maintain a dialogue with them.
• Creating a Sacred Space: Dedicate a small area in your home to your loved one, filled with their photos, belongings, and anything that reminds you of them.

If you have any questions or need support, please don't hesitate to reach out. Together, we can find comfort and connection, even in the face of loss. I've also created "The Spirit of Grief," a compassionate guide designed to bring comfort and insight to anyone navigating the heartache of losing a loved one. You can download it for free here. 

Much Love, 
Gerlinda xx