Your magic love list to find your soulmate

Finding your soulmate is not just a matter of chance but also one of choice. While I'm a parent to young adults who are currently dating, I realise that regardless of your stage in life, the principles of intentional dating remain the same. This goes beyond initial attraction and delves into building a strong foundation for a lifetime of love. One such approach to dating with intention is creating what I call your "Magic Love List". Coupled with setting healthy boundaries, this list can serve as your roadmap to finding your soulmate.

The Power of Taking it Slow

When it comes to dating, especially with the prospect of finding your soulmate, it can be tempting to rush through the 'getting to know each other' phase. Yet, slowing down offers invaluable insights into someone's character, beliefs, and long-term suitability. Not only does it allow you to vet potential matches against your "Magic Love List", but it also gives room for your intuition to speak. Remember, your soulmate will not just align with you on a superficial level but will resonate with your very core.

No Quick Judgments, Know Your Deal-Breakers

First impressions, though impactful, can be deceiving. Avoid jumping to conclusions based on someone’s looks or initial interactions. Instead, give yourself time to learn more about this person and how they align with what you’ve listed on your Magic Love List. It’s also important to know what your deal-breakers are. These are the things that you can't overlook and should be non-negotiable when searching for your soulmate.

Honouring Your Boundaries and Recognising Red Flags

Part of the journey towards finding your soulmate is honouring your own boundaries. Know when to say no, when to take a step back, and when to walk away. If something doesn't feel right or if there are warning signs that a person isn't who you thought they were, pay attention. Your red flags are your soul’s way of telling you that something is off. Trust yourself and your intuition.

Crafting Your Magic Love List

Creating your Magic Love List involves more than jotting down a wish list of attractive qualities. It requires deep introspection about what you genuinely desire and need for a lifelong partnership. 

Steps to Crafting Your Magic Love List:

1. Core Values: Your soulmate will naturally align with your fundamental values, whether it’s spirituality, family importance, or ethical beliefs.

2. Lifestyle Compatibility: This could range from wanting someone who enjoys bushwalks to someone who is passionate about their career.

3. Emotional and Psychological Traits: Consider attributes like emotional intelligence, communication skills, and resilience when making your list.

4. Physical and Sexual Chemistry: While this should not be the sole factor, physical attraction and sexual compatibility can play a role in lifelong happiness.

5. Review and Revise: Your Magic Love List isn’t set in stone. As you evolve, your list might too. Always keep it updated to reflect your current needs and desires.

Dating with the intention of finding your soulmate involves setting healthy boundaries, understanding your own needs, and creating your Magic Love List to guide you through your journey. When you combine these elements, you don’t just leave your love life up to fate; you take active steps in co-creating a beautiful future with your soulmate. So go ahead, create your Magic Love List and take that empowered step towards true love.

Crafting you Magic Love List is an intimate process that sometimes needs a guiding hand. I offer specialised Soulmate Sessions designed to help you articulate your deepest desires and needs, giving you clarity in your search for a lifelong partner. By the end of our session, you'll have a refined Magic Love List and a renewed sense of purpose in your quest for love.

Feel free to contact me for more information about these empowering Soulmate Sessions. Together, we can make sure you're on the right path to attracting the love that you truly deserve.

Much Love, 
Gerlinda xx